Love for the right reasons and you'll never have doubts. It's simple, the Bible is very clear about it, love a person for their unchanging heart, and not for there outward appearance or looks. You see, a loving heart never fades away, it lasts an entire lifetime, but looks and material die over time, and therefore love based on these things can never last forever. Sounds simple doesn't it, but the thing is people love for the wrong reasons every day.
They find someone who is attractive or good in bed, and try with all their heart to justify loving them. They find someone who can give them the material things they think they need, and they go the extra mile to justify their love for them. However, the truth is if they have a great heart, than everything else will stay true and fall into place, that is when, and only when, love conquers all.
If you have to make excuses for your loved one, then you don't love them right. A loved one should never demoralize you, but rather build you through kindness and mutual respect. A loved one will never doubt you, they might at times disagree, but never doubt you. A loved one believes in you, not for personal gain, but for your growth, because your growth is for both of you.
A loved one doesn't ask where you been or who you been with day after day, because they are secure in their love and trust for you. If a loved one trust you, than it doesn't matter who you are with or if they trust them, because they trust you to make the right choices. If you truly love a person's heart, then you really need to think about them, because deep down that is real love, and doesn't get more pure.
People often fight this love because there is no spark or excitement, or they physically attracted, but deep down if you love their heart, that is the real spark God is showing you. A spark leads to fire which last but a night, but loving a person's heart is much more than a spark, loving a person's heart is like the sun, day after day it will always be right there for you and bring you much happiness if you just let it in.
In time, we all learn this, either the easy way or the hard way, some times the hard way takes years, but over time it all is revealed. If you can't have a short term relationship without trust issues and wondering if they love, than what do you think will happen long term. A loveless long term relationship can be one of the most brutal pains one can ever experience, and one of the hardest things to ever come back from.
If God wanted us to love based on looks, then we'd all be beautiful to one another, we'd all look the same. But it's the differences God chose to make us unique, He wanted to truly know one another, and therefore placed the real love deep inside us, deep in our hearts. Actions speak volumes, if someone who has every right to walk away from you chooses to stay and love you and help you, then those actions should speak volumes. Just because you feel you don't want something or aren't drawn to something, doesn't mean it isn't what God feels you need. He works in mysterious ways if we just simply listen and watch, many times he places things in plain sight, and we are just to stubborn to acknowledge His signs.
A great heart is the greatest love a person can show and give, and when a person has that great heart you love and is willing to give it to you, that is more valuable than any other gift to exist. Quotes, words, sayings, we all can use them to convey or justify ourselves. But the one thing nobody can manipulate is what they have in their heart as it will always show in how they treat those they love.
God has a plan, and believe me in the end it will be His plan that happens, whether we want it to or not.
They find someone who is attractive or good in bed, and try with all their heart to justify loving them. They find someone who can give them the material things they think they need, and they go the extra mile to justify their love for them. However, the truth is if they have a great heart, than everything else will stay true and fall into place, that is when, and only when, love conquers all.
If you have to make excuses for your loved one, then you don't love them right. A loved one should never demoralize you, but rather build you through kindness and mutual respect. A loved one will never doubt you, they might at times disagree, but never doubt you. A loved one believes in you, not for personal gain, but for your growth, because your growth is for both of you.
A loved one doesn't ask where you been or who you been with day after day, because they are secure in their love and trust for you. If a loved one trust you, than it doesn't matter who you are with or if they trust them, because they trust you to make the right choices. If you truly love a person's heart, then you really need to think about them, because deep down that is real love, and doesn't get more pure.
People often fight this love because there is no spark or excitement, or they physically attracted, but deep down if you love their heart, that is the real spark God is showing you. A spark leads to fire which last but a night, but loving a person's heart is much more than a spark, loving a person's heart is like the sun, day after day it will always be right there for you and bring you much happiness if you just let it in.
In time, we all learn this, either the easy way or the hard way, some times the hard way takes years, but over time it all is revealed. If you can't have a short term relationship without trust issues and wondering if they love, than what do you think will happen long term. A loveless long term relationship can be one of the most brutal pains one can ever experience, and one of the hardest things to ever come back from.
If God wanted us to love based on looks, then we'd all be beautiful to one another, we'd all look the same. But it's the differences God chose to make us unique, He wanted to truly know one another, and therefore placed the real love deep inside us, deep in our hearts. Actions speak volumes, if someone who has every right to walk away from you chooses to stay and love you and help you, then those actions should speak volumes. Just because you feel you don't want something or aren't drawn to something, doesn't mean it isn't what God feels you need. He works in mysterious ways if we just simply listen and watch, many times he places things in plain sight, and we are just to stubborn to acknowledge His signs.
A great heart is the greatest love a person can show and give, and when a person has that great heart you love and is willing to give it to you, that is more valuable than any other gift to exist. Quotes, words, sayings, we all can use them to convey or justify ourselves. But the one thing nobody can manipulate is what they have in their heart as it will always show in how they treat those they love.
God has a plan, and believe me in the end it will be His plan that happens, whether we want it to or not.
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