There are times you hear or see something, and the person thinks they're being so clever, and all I can do is shake my head and laugh at how wrong they are, and poor soul just doesn't see the hypocrisy in it. Let me tell a myth about love, something the human nature desires, but it's lust and not love.
You don't tame another human being, especially one you love. You tame an animal, not a human, the Bible even says to tame the beasts, it never says tame a human. You see history has even taught us taming another human being just isn't right, and it never ends well. Some men see taming a woman as a sense of control and power, but truthfully only a man who is not confident in his self has to go this go to this length. A human being, especially woman, should be able to have the same voice and rights as anyone else in any relationship. An attitude is not a curse, but can be a gift. I get so tired of hearing a man disagreeing with a woman, and then saying but I put her in her place as if that is something to brag about. There are the woman is right, and maybe the man needs his attitude checked.
You don't someone you love, that isn't love, that's control. And I know some woman are drawn to this, but do you not realize you're defeating the very purpose of equality you're fighting for. No you don't tame them, you nurture them, you listen to them, you include them, and you realize they are your equal, there life and thoughts matter just as much as your's. Power isn't controlling someone, power isn't taming someone, no that's a power trip or an ego boost, but it isn't real power. Don't let yourself be fooled.
Martin Luther King Jr. is a prime example how true power and change comes from nurturing not taming, it's not easy, but real change and power never is. A real man, can help a woman he loves grow without raising a hand or voice, a real man can take a beating and still stay calm and help both of them grow without taming anyone. How many times do people need to learn they don't need to be tamed, nobody does. They just need direction, need to be taught and guided, need to be respected, need to be included.
And when will women learn that true power doesn't control you, a powerful position is nothing because believe me there people in power now that are nowhere near powerful. True power comes from the heart, comes from how you treat others, comes from kindness and integrity. Floyd Mayweather seems powerful with his money and profession, but reality is he isn't powerful, he simply has money to manipulative, put him in situation where he needs real power and I promise you who will fail.
Yet the human nature for women is they're drawn to what they think is power, but read your Bible, it tells you what true power is. Some powerful men in the bible fall because they thought they had true power, and God showed what true power is. Saul thought he was powerful when he was killing hundred of thousands of Christians, but then he became Paul, an apostle of Christ, and found true power in his words through Christ.
Turn the other cheek, straight from the Bible. A real man knows violence or any kind of looking down on someone else is never the answer. You don't tame anyone, and believe God sees all, and one day He'll put you in a position where you will reap what you sow.
Tame yourself if you truly feel the need to tame anyone. When I see a man who feels the need to belittle another person by taming them, I see a weak and sad and insecure man. There is nothing real about a person like that. Sometime the truth stings and makes you mad, but it doesn't change the fact that it's the truth. God is love, God isn't control or taming, God allowed all people, men and women alike, free will for a reason.
You don't tame another human being, especially one you love. You tame an animal, not a human, the Bible even says to tame the beasts, it never says tame a human. You see history has even taught us taming another human being just isn't right, and it never ends well. Some men see taming a woman as a sense of control and power, but truthfully only a man who is not confident in his self has to go this go to this length. A human being, especially woman, should be able to have the same voice and rights as anyone else in any relationship. An attitude is not a curse, but can be a gift. I get so tired of hearing a man disagreeing with a woman, and then saying but I put her in her place as if that is something to brag about. There are the woman is right, and maybe the man needs his attitude checked.
You don't someone you love, that isn't love, that's control. And I know some woman are drawn to this, but do you not realize you're defeating the very purpose of equality you're fighting for. No you don't tame them, you nurture them, you listen to them, you include them, and you realize they are your equal, there life and thoughts matter just as much as your's. Power isn't controlling someone, power isn't taming someone, no that's a power trip or an ego boost, but it isn't real power. Don't let yourself be fooled.
Martin Luther King Jr. is a prime example how true power and change comes from nurturing not taming, it's not easy, but real change and power never is. A real man, can help a woman he loves grow without raising a hand or voice, a real man can take a beating and still stay calm and help both of them grow without taming anyone. How many times do people need to learn they don't need to be tamed, nobody does. They just need direction, need to be taught and guided, need to be respected, need to be included.
And when will women learn that true power doesn't control you, a powerful position is nothing because believe me there people in power now that are nowhere near powerful. True power comes from the heart, comes from how you treat others, comes from kindness and integrity. Floyd Mayweather seems powerful with his money and profession, but reality is he isn't powerful, he simply has money to manipulative, put him in situation where he needs real power and I promise you who will fail.
Yet the human nature for women is they're drawn to what they think is power, but read your Bible, it tells you what true power is. Some powerful men in the bible fall because they thought they had true power, and God showed what true power is. Saul thought he was powerful when he was killing hundred of thousands of Christians, but then he became Paul, an apostle of Christ, and found true power in his words through Christ.
Turn the other cheek, straight from the Bible. A real man knows violence or any kind of looking down on someone else is never the answer. You don't tame anyone, and believe God sees all, and one day He'll put you in a position where you will reap what you sow.
Tame yourself if you truly feel the need to tame anyone. When I see a man who feels the need to belittle another person by taming them, I see a weak and sad and insecure man. There is nothing real about a person like that. Sometime the truth stings and makes you mad, but it doesn't change the fact that it's the truth. God is love, God isn't control or taming, God allowed all people, men and women alike, free will for a reason.
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