Thursday, January 7, 2016

Love Is

Love, a word that is thrown around way too much in this world, what love really is, it is stronger than words can over convey.  To see real love we have to look at our example, and the example we were shown is in God himself.  God loved us so much, that he willingly sent his own son to die so that we might have our sins washed away.  Now think about that, at that time mankind as whole mostly took God for granted, most of mankind worshipped false idols or worried more about their image than how they loved God, they sinned freely with little remorse, they sinned and justified by saying it was what they had to do, all these things were true, but God loved us all so much that He didn't let our sins turn Him away, instead He gave his son to die for those who had willingly sinned. 

Now, let's take it a step further, not only did God love us for real, but Jesus Himself loved us all so much that He went through with God's plan to sacrifice His blood for us.  Now think about it, He willingly died for the very men who crucified Him just as much as any other person to ever live.  My point is God or Jesus never gave up on us because they truly love us and believe in us.  These are the examples of love we are to follow.  Love is really the only real thing we can ever possess, love can't be sold, love can't be bought, love can't be manufactured, love is something that has a life of it's own, love cannot be killed, love cannot be denied, love is something that hits with no explanation or warning.  When love happens, believe it is real and don't run from it.

Love is worth dying for, love is worth fighting for, love is worth loving for, love is who we are when we are at our very best.  Love trumps money, love trumps power, love is the precious part of this world and our lives.  Love is the one thing in this life you can take with you to the next life.  I'm one of those people who tries to use the word love very rarely, for me to say I love someone means I'm completely committed to them in all ways.  It means I've prayed about it often, it means I've fought it often, it means it is a part of me I can't live without, when I love someone it means they are more important to me than anything else, more important to me than my own life.

I love one woman, and I know who she is.  I don't know how things will play out, all I can do is trust in God.  I trust in God, and I believe in His plan for myself and really everyone.  This love in me for her was given to me by God for a reason.  God hasn't removed this love for a reason.  And believe me, I've tried to walk away completely from her multiple times, the whole let her see life without me thought has come across, but everytime God finds way to guide me back to her. 

One way to know if you truly love someone is simple, it's easy to love someone when their successful, it's easy to give advice when you're in a better position then the one your advising, loving someone when they got something to give you is easy.  Real love comes on the other side, you know it's real love when you love them just as much even though they're struggling, even though they can't give you what you want right now, even though they're down, you still love them, you love them even when they mess up, you love them even when they push away.  I can honestly tell I love her completely no matter where either of us are in life, if she's struggling or needs constant help, I love her, if she is the most successful person alive, I still love her the same.  It doesn't matter to me, because it isn't about what she is or what she can give, it's more about who she is and how she completes me.  I will always have her first in my heart, and unlike any other man out there, I can honestly say no matter what paths she takes I will unconditionally love her forever.  I refuse to give up on her, I refuse to turn my back on her. And if nothing else, I will allow my actions, as they have in the past, to prove to everyone I will never give up or turn my back on her.  Why?  It's really simple I love her for real, and it isn't about my image, I could care less about my image, what matters to me is her, and how I love her, and that I honor my love completely to her.

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