Beyond My Book Cover

Understanding my love can be simple and complicated all at the same time, but understanding what I'm drawn too will reveal why I love the woman I do.

Here are some of the most important qualities I'm drawn to in a woman whom I love:

• Strong willed and hearted woman, a woman who is kind and giving, yet isn't afraid to challenge me when needed.  You see I'm not looking for a woman who is a pushover or says yes to everything I say.  I actually enjoy that challenge, even if at first it might frustrate me or drive me nuts, that constant drive (when done right) let's me know how invested in me she is.  As strange as it is, I want the woman I love to claim me as her's and be a little possessive of me.
• Drive, a driven spirit, I want to see her reaching for the dreams without looking back, I want to see her believe in herself.
• I'm not looking to be spoiled at all, I seek appreciation and closeness and time more than anything.  While I definitely enjoy big groups gatherings, its that one on one intimate time that I cherish the most.  I love having secrets with the one I love, I look forward to those private moments more than anything.
• The best gift you can ever give me is herself when I love you.  Money not so much important to me when coming to gifts, knowing I a set time to enjoy her is all I ever truly want.  I'm one of those different men who don't mind listening to her problems and life, I don't run from her wanting talk.  I enjoy a good deep conversation with her anytime.
• Despite my gentlemen like approach, behind closed doors I desire that physical love, I am very hands on, and prefer that roughside honestly.  I have no issues letting her take charge, even though I don't taking charge myself, but there is something I truly love about being completely submitted to the woman I love, I love being in her hands and never fear it.
• A woman who understands my desire to help her and be there for her, and lets me do just that.  I'm an extremely guarded person, I don't open to many at all, but when it comes to the woman I love I am extremely giving and supportive, and its my way of showing I love you.  While money doesn't mean much to me in receiving, I don't mind putting all I have and investing in her, to me there is nothing better to invest in then the woman I desire to spend my life with.  And when I say invest I don't just mean money, but I also mean time, blood, sweat, tears, soul and so on.
• I love laugh, and I can have an extremely kinky and dirty mind.  Don't forget I'm a Virgo, there is no other more kinky sign, we wear the freak level well, we just mask it.  
• I love when the woman I love understands me, but isn't afraid to question me.  Trust is a really big deal to me, and so is loyalty.  I will give her complete trust and loyalty like no other, and in a way I want that in return.  Flirting has never bother me, I want her to be friendly and feel free, as long as in the end all the physical aspects stay between us I'm ok.
• I'm flexible and open, I'll willingly let her toe the line, but I'm always paying attention.  And if needed I don't mind asserting myself, but I don't always like too, and I have an extremely long fuse, but understand when I pick that moment, there is no anger more fierce.  I don't get violent at all, but my words and truth can shred the best of them.  This is why I'm extremely careful with my words, I'm well spoken because my words are well thought out.  I'm not afraid to show my emotions to an extent, but to get that true feeling out me is something extremely difficult to do.
• We all have are secrets and fetishes, and I am very open minded, don't get me wrong I will draw the line eventually and once I do you can be assured I will not cross it.  I'm stubborn myself in certain areas.  But I understand circumstances very well, and I try to understand why choices get made good or bad, so as a result I'm very forgiving.  I always see everyone's point of view, or at least attempt to, I've always been firmly aware this world revolves around nobody including myself.
• I am humble, and while I do seek a bit of humbleness in the woman I love, I do love it when she has pride.  I want her to love herself and flaunt herself in confidence.  You see I love everyone to know just how great the woman I love is, and how blessed I am to be her's.

There is a lot more to it than just these few facts, but sometimes you can't judge a book by it's cover, and I'm living proof of that.  Nobody has really gotten to truly know me as deeply as I revealed here, but there is a whole new side of me, but I don't just give it away, I have self worth.  I need to know she is all in, I need to hear her say it and show it, I need the commitment, and once I get that I change.  You get the carnal and physical side, I stay the gentlemen in public view, and in many ways I back off and give the space.  You see once I know we're official I get at ease, but love is always a give and take.  I will give all day to an extent, but to get those deep gifts from me, I need her to give me that commitment.  Once she does, I'm her's completely, and I love that.