Man oh man, I got several topics to cover, I guess I'll just get started then. There is absolutely nothing wrong with fighting for a cause, in fact it is quite admirable. However, don't get so caught in one particular cause that you miss fixing anything, and rather only intensify things. Sometimes we see unfair situations that are skewed in one sides favor, and yes, that is unjust and wrong no matter which way it could be skewed, but skewing it in the opposite sides favor isn't fixing the problem, no it only creates a new and possibly bigger problem. You have to find balance and equality to truly find a real solution for all. No person is superior to any other, no matter their color, sex, position or title, we are and should be equal. Have equal rights, equal voices, equal opportunities, equal treatment, quite simply equality. All lives matter, all voices matter, all ideas matter, we all matter bottom line. There is no other true solution, violence does nothing but cause anger, and violence makes you no better then the very people you protest. Yes violence will get their attention, yes violence may cause a change, but at what cost to the world and your personal integrity. I may not be the strongest, I may not be the smartest, I may not be the richest, but I promise I am among the fairest and realest of them all.
Hatred of all kind, of all color, of all sex has to end. No more revenge, it only leads to more revenge. Instead of fighting back with the same tactics that are causing you stress, why not stand up and do what is right, not for just yourself, or just your sex, or just your race, no, do what is right for everyone, lead by example. Children are watching us all, children of all sexes and races are watching us all and learning everything we do, right or wrong. Do you want to teach your children hate, do you want to teach them the very bad habits of this world we need to change, I would hope not. No, teach and show the children we are equal, we should treat everyone with kindness and respect, teach them that education is not just in books but in how we treat one another, teach them they matter and can stand their ground respectfully and professionally. Teach them to follow the Bible and turn the other cheek, because God will always have the final word. Stop spreading hate, and start spreading truth and love and respect by actions. All lives matter, that is the truth. Be an example, and treat everyone equally as you would want to be treated yourself. I shake my head at the insane actions from all races and people nowadays, all in the name of injustice, and their only fight is that their race or sex is the only one that matters, that in itself is exactly why this world is in chaos. We all matter.
It doesn't matter to me who you are, what color you are, what sex you are, how rich you are, how useful you are, no, to me if I can help you, and God gives me peace to help you, then I will, simply because I know we all are equal and we all need help sooner or later in life. God didn't create us to kill each other or fight over each other, God placed us here to help each other be the best we can be.
That is one point, now how do you know you love someone? Well let me just say, you know you found your true love when you get nervous about talking to them, because you don't want to screw it up. When you have a conversation with them in your head a million times before and after you have a real conversation with them. When every decision they make is a big deal to you. When you think you're losing them and your whole world no longer matters. Yes, it might make us look weak, but that is what love does to us. When we love someone we make ourselves vulnerable to them because we trust them. And I love her, and she can break me I confess, but only because I willingly let her, but trust her enough to not break me, but to love me back.
Women often time are physically attracted to the man who could care less about anything, the man who takes charge and claims what he wants without worrying who he hurts. They think this is strength, but then they later realize this same man and attitude is not a good thing. Because they realize he really doesn't care what they want, he only wants them there to get what he wants, these type of men will use her and then replace her when he finds someone better. This type of man will hurt her to claim what he wants in life.
Women run from the men with hearts, who care too much, who go the extra mile to be there for them, the men who have no problem letting them know that they are their world. They say these men are weak and clingy. But reality is these men get what they want the right way, they treat people with respect, sometimes they get knocked down but always get back up stronger than before. They take into account what their actions might do to all others, and try their best to do what is best for all. And most importantly they actually love and care what she wants, and will always be there for her, even if they have to sacrifice some of themselves. These men are the men who will build you up, and never let you fall. These men you run from our actually the strongest and bravest men of all. This is the love that lasts a lifetime.
Don't love for the excitement, don't love for the sex, don't love for the physical attraction. Instead love a man because he truly loves you back and will do anything to make you a great and happy woman for life. A real man is not afraid of admitting his woman is his world. I have said my piece.
Hatred of all kind, of all color, of all sex has to end. No more revenge, it only leads to more revenge. Instead of fighting back with the same tactics that are causing you stress, why not stand up and do what is right, not for just yourself, or just your sex, or just your race, no, do what is right for everyone, lead by example. Children are watching us all, children of all sexes and races are watching us all and learning everything we do, right or wrong. Do you want to teach your children hate, do you want to teach them the very bad habits of this world we need to change, I would hope not. No, teach and show the children we are equal, we should treat everyone with kindness and respect, teach them that education is not just in books but in how we treat one another, teach them they matter and can stand their ground respectfully and professionally. Teach them to follow the Bible and turn the other cheek, because God will always have the final word. Stop spreading hate, and start spreading truth and love and respect by actions. All lives matter, that is the truth. Be an example, and treat everyone equally as you would want to be treated yourself. I shake my head at the insane actions from all races and people nowadays, all in the name of injustice, and their only fight is that their race or sex is the only one that matters, that in itself is exactly why this world is in chaos. We all matter.
It doesn't matter to me who you are, what color you are, what sex you are, how rich you are, how useful you are, no, to me if I can help you, and God gives me peace to help you, then I will, simply because I know we all are equal and we all need help sooner or later in life. God didn't create us to kill each other or fight over each other, God placed us here to help each other be the best we can be.
That is one point, now how do you know you love someone? Well let me just say, you know you found your true love when you get nervous about talking to them, because you don't want to screw it up. When you have a conversation with them in your head a million times before and after you have a real conversation with them. When every decision they make is a big deal to you. When you think you're losing them and your whole world no longer matters. Yes, it might make us look weak, but that is what love does to us. When we love someone we make ourselves vulnerable to them because we trust them. And I love her, and she can break me I confess, but only because I willingly let her, but trust her enough to not break me, but to love me back.
Women often time are physically attracted to the man who could care less about anything, the man who takes charge and claims what he wants without worrying who he hurts. They think this is strength, but then they later realize this same man and attitude is not a good thing. Because they realize he really doesn't care what they want, he only wants them there to get what he wants, these type of men will use her and then replace her when he finds someone better. This type of man will hurt her to claim what he wants in life.
Women run from the men with hearts, who care too much, who go the extra mile to be there for them, the men who have no problem letting them know that they are their world. They say these men are weak and clingy. But reality is these men get what they want the right way, they treat people with respect, sometimes they get knocked down but always get back up stronger than before. They take into account what their actions might do to all others, and try their best to do what is best for all. And most importantly they actually love and care what she wants, and will always be there for her, even if they have to sacrifice some of themselves. These men are the men who will build you up, and never let you fall. These men you run from our actually the strongest and bravest men of all. This is the love that lasts a lifetime.
Don't love for the excitement, don't love for the sex, don't love for the physical attraction. Instead love a man because he truly loves you back and will do anything to make you a great and happy woman for life. A real man is not afraid of admitting his woman is his world. I have said my piece.
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