Ask yourself these simple questions:
- What do I want in life and a relationship?
- What do I need in life and a relationship?
- Is this person giving me what need or what I want?
- Does this person believe and trust in me, or do they doubt me and question me?
- Am I currently growing or just spinning my wheels where I'm at?
- Have I lost my independent side or am I becoming dependent on someone else?
- Is what I have really the best option for me, or am I fooling myself?
- Can this last for life, or is this just an endless loop?
- Can I see myself happy with this person for life, which could be as much as 50 years?
- Would I give anything to help this person be successful and happy?
- Would this person give anything to help me be successful and happy?
- Do I love them for the right reasons, not for material or lustful reasons?
- Is this person someone who can help me become better than I am?
- Does this person respect me, or are they only trying to control me or make me what they want me to be?
Look, I can honestly say the one I love passes all these questions. She is worth it, and nobody can convince me otherwise. But if someone doesn't pass even one of these questions, you might want to step back and think things through.
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