Maybe I can be crazy, maybe I can be stubborn, maybe I can be outspoken, maybe I can be a lot of things, but one things I can promise you I am is blunt and honest about how I feel. I answer every question I'm asked with honesty, but I do confess many times I won't give information unless asked personally. Believe me, a lot of information makes its way to me, from many different sources, and strangely enough I rarely have to seek it out as it finds me. Sometimes I think God just likes to keep me alert on things. Who knows? All I know is many times I know things that I pretend not to know, can't show all your cards right? And I have a keen sense when someone knows more then they let on, for some reason I've always had that ability, but once again I often times don't let people know I know. Just a tidbit about me I guess, now let me get to the point.
What do I look for in the one I love? Well, let me give you some tips I suppose. I'm a man who will give everything I got and more for the woman I love, when I love someone I go all in, and many ways allow them to consume me willingly. I guess in some ways I want the woman I love to me in a same way, maybe not to that extreme persay, but maybe where they would accept me, and be willing to do whatever it takes for us to be successful and happy together, and be willing to risk it all and go all in on our love. Look I know its scary to leave your comfort zone, and take a risk it all approach on someone else, but if you love them truly, then the reward is worth any risk. Because whatever you're risking, isn't really your ultimate blessing, if the one you love isn't in it.
Another thing I look for, is someone who is a risk taker, someone who goes out of there way to surprise me, basically keep me guessing. You see, I'm a planner, I plan everything ten steps in the future, its why I'm good with money and work, and its the Virgo in me. So, I need the one love to be my counterpart, to be the one to keep me willing to risk things. I'm not looking for someone just like me, in many ways I want someone a little different. I'm drawn to strong personalities, in some ways aggressive women, because I know I need someone who isn't afraid to push me. But at the same I can be there balance, when they get too crazy I can reign them in. It's a give and take thing. Plus us Virgos do have a tendency of being freaky in certain areas, so you that aggressiveness is welcomed their too. I want someone to who respects me and loves me, but isn't afraid to claim me as their's. Most guys are afraid to admit that, but I'm not most guys, I'm very upfront and blunt in these areas. The woman I love needs to have a heart, not so much where she saves the world, but a heart that is loving and fair, a heart like a mother bear where she'll defend her family at all costs. Also, the woman I love has to love God too, this one is actually a bigger deal to me than most realize.
I hate hearing we have nothing in common, because that is the beauty of love, you shouldn't be trying to love someone just like you, but opposites attract for a reason. I say love someone a little different than you, thats how your love grows as you each open each others minds and eyes to different things. I'm not saying you'll like it all, but tis the adventure that makes it wonderful, plus you get to share with the one you love.
I can handle more than people realize, I'm not weak, and I'm not afraid to say what I feel and think. I like to let people know where we stand, its just better that way. I love her, and she is exactly everything I love in a woman, and yes I can handle her more than she knows, but secretly I like letting her break me, it shows me she cares and loves me too. We always come back to each other, I just forward to the day we both finally realize we should just stay together, because in the end we both love each other and want the best for each other, and she has everything I need in life, and whether she realizes it or not, I have everything she needs, believe me. I talk a big game, I promise her a lot, but I want her to call my bluff and claim our love, believe me I'll back my promises up and some.
What do I look for in the one I love? Well, let me give you some tips I suppose. I'm a man who will give everything I got and more for the woman I love, when I love someone I go all in, and many ways allow them to consume me willingly. I guess in some ways I want the woman I love to me in a same way, maybe not to that extreme persay, but maybe where they would accept me, and be willing to do whatever it takes for us to be successful and happy together, and be willing to risk it all and go all in on our love. Look I know its scary to leave your comfort zone, and take a risk it all approach on someone else, but if you love them truly, then the reward is worth any risk. Because whatever you're risking, isn't really your ultimate blessing, if the one you love isn't in it.
Another thing I look for, is someone who is a risk taker, someone who goes out of there way to surprise me, basically keep me guessing. You see, I'm a planner, I plan everything ten steps in the future, its why I'm good with money and work, and its the Virgo in me. So, I need the one love to be my counterpart, to be the one to keep me willing to risk things. I'm not looking for someone just like me, in many ways I want someone a little different. I'm drawn to strong personalities, in some ways aggressive women, because I know I need someone who isn't afraid to push me. But at the same I can be there balance, when they get too crazy I can reign them in. It's a give and take thing. Plus us Virgos do have a tendency of being freaky in certain areas, so you that aggressiveness is welcomed their too. I want someone to who respects me and loves me, but isn't afraid to claim me as their's. Most guys are afraid to admit that, but I'm not most guys, I'm very upfront and blunt in these areas. The woman I love needs to have a heart, not so much where she saves the world, but a heart that is loving and fair, a heart like a mother bear where she'll defend her family at all costs. Also, the woman I love has to love God too, this one is actually a bigger deal to me than most realize.
I hate hearing we have nothing in common, because that is the beauty of love, you shouldn't be trying to love someone just like you, but opposites attract for a reason. I say love someone a little different than you, thats how your love grows as you each open each others minds and eyes to different things. I'm not saying you'll like it all, but tis the adventure that makes it wonderful, plus you get to share with the one you love.
I can handle more than people realize, I'm not weak, and I'm not afraid to say what I feel and think. I like to let people know where we stand, its just better that way. I love her, and she is exactly everything I love in a woman, and yes I can handle her more than she knows, but secretly I like letting her break me, it shows me she cares and loves me too. We always come back to each other, I just forward to the day we both finally realize we should just stay together, because in the end we both love each other and want the best for each other, and she has everything I need in life, and whether she realizes it or not, I have everything she needs, believe me. I talk a big game, I promise her a lot, but I want her to call my bluff and claim our love, believe me I'll back my promises up and some.
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