I saw this quote on another person's page, and at first I didn't really buy it, but the more I thought about it, it really is dead on:
"Love is trusting someone with your heart, and then taking the risk of them breaking it."
It really is true, I was thinking about the one I love, and I do trust her with my heart, I love her with all I got, and I've always been willing to take the risk of her breaking it, and at times she has, but the thing is I forgive her, because I love her, and all the men in world can say I'm weak for that, and I don't care, because it's not weakness, it's called love and commitment. Those same men have no idea what love is, they know lust, but love is worth so much more.
I fall in slow, but I fall in love hard when I do. Maybe she wants be to claim her and take her away for myself, but I won't do that the way things are now, and here is why. I don't believe in cheating or breaking others up for personal gain. I believe if a woman will chase you while with someone else, then what is to say one day she won't do the same to you. No, if she wants me to claim her or take her, all she has to do is take the step of freeing herself, otherwise I'm stepping over that line. Its a respect thing too, I respect her enough to let things play out, and I believe in my love enough to let things play out, I trust God enough to let things play out.
I have no idea what is going on in her life right now, and that is intentional. I don't ask anyone about her, unless maybe "How she doing" or if she herself has told me something I might ask about that topic, but I don't go looking for info. I want her to want to tell me things, and she knows she can, but I want to prove to her she can trust in me. And the few times I do speak about her, believe me I'm always complimenting her or trying to build her up, it's true.
But my point is this, if we do love each other we both have to be willing to walk away from what we know now in life, and trust in God and each other in what we walk into life together. I for one am ready for that risk, because I believe our life together is the reward of a lifetime.
"Love is trusting someone with your heart, and then taking the risk of them breaking it."
It really is true, I was thinking about the one I love, and I do trust her with my heart, I love her with all I got, and I've always been willing to take the risk of her breaking it, and at times she has, but the thing is I forgive her, because I love her, and all the men in world can say I'm weak for that, and I don't care, because it's not weakness, it's called love and commitment. Those same men have no idea what love is, they know lust, but love is worth so much more.
I fall in slow, but I fall in love hard when I do. Maybe she wants be to claim her and take her away for myself, but I won't do that the way things are now, and here is why. I don't believe in cheating or breaking others up for personal gain. I believe if a woman will chase you while with someone else, then what is to say one day she won't do the same to you. No, if she wants me to claim her or take her, all she has to do is take the step of freeing herself, otherwise I'm stepping over that line. Its a respect thing too, I respect her enough to let things play out, and I believe in my love enough to let things play out, I trust God enough to let things play out.
I have no idea what is going on in her life right now, and that is intentional. I don't ask anyone about her, unless maybe "How she doing" or if she herself has told me something I might ask about that topic, but I don't go looking for info. I want her to want to tell me things, and she knows she can, but I want to prove to her she can trust in me. And the few times I do speak about her, believe me I'm always complimenting her or trying to build her up, it's true.
But my point is this, if we do love each other we both have to be willing to walk away from what we know now in life, and trust in God and each other in what we walk into life together. I for one am ready for that risk, because I believe our life together is the reward of a lifetime.
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