One thing many people don’t seem
to realize is life is all about balance, God Himself maintains this balance
of good and evil to keep this world from spinning out of control. Its
not a bad thing at all, its simply God protecting us all. When Revelation
in the Bible happens is when the world falls out of balance towards the
evil side for example, the call it the end of times for a reason.
Anyway, I’ve drifted off topic, but my point is when God blesses us He has to take from someone or somewhere else to maintain balance, look in the Bible itself, all those wars God helped them win in Israel, someone else had to lose the war. God is a just God and takes from those He knows who He needs to take from of course, but it doesn’t change the fact to be blessed someone else must take a equal loss. So I tend to get bothered when someone is happy that they believe the world should be happy with them, it simply doesn’t work that way, I mean I wish it did it sounds nice, but reality is it doesn’t. And life is balanced, this means one day God will take from you and bless someone else for a time. Nothing is permanent of course, but its our job to understand this, and survive both the peaks and valleys in life. So when your happy understand that not everyone is in a position to be happy with you, it doesn’t mean they aren’t happy for you, but they could be struggling through something bigger than you could ever imagine. Loss depending on the importance of what is loss to a person can be devastating, in some cases deadly, just simply true. The more someone or something means to one person, the bigger it impacts there life for better or worse, losing someone who is vital to your life is a rock bottom feeling that few truly grasp unless they’re going through it. Its easy to say smile, its easy to chin up things will get better, it’s a whole other beast to actually do that and do it successfully.
I love someone on a level they can’t seem to fathom, I love this person so much I’m willing to commit my life to them. Simply being around them eases anything in my heart or mind, they balance me out, they bring me down to earth when I’m getting out there, they break by shell when I need to let it out. To me, they were my best friend, and loving someone on this level is amazing and life altering. You can’t control who you love, all you can do is accept it and cherish it. There is absolutely nothing I would do for her, and I mean that. But asking me to claim you comes with a cost, I have to take from someone else to claim you, sometimes I wonder if people realize what they’re really asking for. Life is balance. I know in my heart of hearts that my love for her is very real, and my heart just can’t seem to move on, for whatever reason God won’t let me let go, and that’s ok, it means I’m meant to love her for better or worse. But to love someone on this level and not be with them is hard beyond words, and quite frankly I’m not sure what else to do other than step back and let God and time handle things, but that is so much easier said than done. But know this, I love her, my dreams are with her, and I simply believe in her. I try to build her in a way where she can build herself with just a little help and guidance from me, I know she wants to be a self built woman, and truthfully she can be, but everyone from time to time has needed a little help in life, its called love.
So, next time someone is hurting, don’t push them away because they’re negative or hurting or cramping your style, but rather listen to them and try and help them, You never know when God is trying to use you to help them through whatever they need. When Jesus walked the world He was constantly surrounded by negative people or hurting people, He chose to heal them, think about it.
Anyway, I’ve drifted off topic, but my point is when God blesses us He has to take from someone or somewhere else to maintain balance, look in the Bible itself, all those wars God helped them win in Israel, someone else had to lose the war. God is a just God and takes from those He knows who He needs to take from of course, but it doesn’t change the fact to be blessed someone else must take a equal loss. So I tend to get bothered when someone is happy that they believe the world should be happy with them, it simply doesn’t work that way, I mean I wish it did it sounds nice, but reality is it doesn’t. And life is balanced, this means one day God will take from you and bless someone else for a time. Nothing is permanent of course, but its our job to understand this, and survive both the peaks and valleys in life. So when your happy understand that not everyone is in a position to be happy with you, it doesn’t mean they aren’t happy for you, but they could be struggling through something bigger than you could ever imagine. Loss depending on the importance of what is loss to a person can be devastating, in some cases deadly, just simply true. The more someone or something means to one person, the bigger it impacts there life for better or worse, losing someone who is vital to your life is a rock bottom feeling that few truly grasp unless they’re going through it. Its easy to say smile, its easy to chin up things will get better, it’s a whole other beast to actually do that and do it successfully.
I love someone on a level they can’t seem to fathom, I love this person so much I’m willing to commit my life to them. Simply being around them eases anything in my heart or mind, they balance me out, they bring me down to earth when I’m getting out there, they break by shell when I need to let it out. To me, they were my best friend, and loving someone on this level is amazing and life altering. You can’t control who you love, all you can do is accept it and cherish it. There is absolutely nothing I would do for her, and I mean that. But asking me to claim you comes with a cost, I have to take from someone else to claim you, sometimes I wonder if people realize what they’re really asking for. Life is balance. I know in my heart of hearts that my love for her is very real, and my heart just can’t seem to move on, for whatever reason God won’t let me let go, and that’s ok, it means I’m meant to love her for better or worse. But to love someone on this level and not be with them is hard beyond words, and quite frankly I’m not sure what else to do other than step back and let God and time handle things, but that is so much easier said than done. But know this, I love her, my dreams are with her, and I simply believe in her. I try to build her in a way where she can build herself with just a little help and guidance from me, I know she wants to be a self built woman, and truthfully she can be, but everyone from time to time has needed a little help in life, its called love.
So, next time someone is hurting, don’t push them away because they’re negative or hurting or cramping your style, but rather listen to them and try and help them, You never know when God is trying to use you to help them through whatever they need. When Jesus walked the world He was constantly surrounded by negative people or hurting people, He chose to heal them, think about it.
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