In life we all screw up and no matter how hard we try not to, we all end up hurting someone sooner or later. The things that separates good people from bad people is simple, a good person never acts like it was ok to hurt someone for their on personal gain, a good person makes things right, a good person realizes they made a mistake in hurting someone. A bad person sees no harm in hurting people as long as it benefited them properly, a bad person sees it as a circumstance that happen to be, a bad person sees it as they did nothing wrong as it was simply necessary. Understand even as a good or bad person, mistakes will happen, you will mess up and hurt someone, but what defines you is the what you do afterwards.
Man up, take charge of your mistakes and make them right, don't take the easy way and shrug them off since they don't bother you, because what you fail to realize is it might not bother you but it does bother the one you hurt still. If you don't do what is right and make things right, karma has a way of forcing you to. Sure you can get what you want faster by running over people and crushing anyone in sight, but success by those methods only lead to painful short term results. Doing things the right way might not be popular and it might take a bit longer, but as a result you you success will last much longer and you will appreciate it much more.
I go out of my way to be the good person, I forgive all, and I confess I am not perfect. I make mistakes, I've made bad choices and hurt people at times, but I make that extra effort to make things right whether its asked for or not. When I doe and face God, I want to make sure I did everything in my power to atone for any mistakes I made, I want to make sure I treated people the right way, I want to make sure I loved the right way. While I may not be perfect, it doesn't stop me from trying to be the best I can be.
The phrase "it happens" or "it couldn't be helped" always bother me, because reality is everything happens because of the choices we make, therefore anything can be avoided ultimately, sometimes people don't want to admit they allowed things to happen. I love her, and this is why I am always open and honest with her, I she who she is and what she can become, she still has room to grow and while she hasn't reached full potential, I take notice that she is doing everything she can to get there. I personally realize there will be setbacks in life for myself and herself and really all of us. its real easy to tell someone you would do things different if you were them, but the truth is we don't know that because we haven't walked in their shoes.
I hate mean you treat women like property or that they should be dependent on them. Women are strong individuals, and they are equal to men in every way. Some men need to swallow their pride and realize you get what you give in love. If you want more, give more. A man should be just as thankful for the woman he loves as he expects her to be for him. I personally think a man who thinks he is better than a woman are less of a man, that that man is truly insecure. I for one am not afraid to show the world who I am, I am not afraid to open my heart and say who I love and why, I don't think being emotionless makes me stronger, in fact hiding my heart makes one weaker. Don't be ashamed of who you are or who you love. Fuck your image, what matters is reality and who you are and who you love. Get over yourself, we are all equal, you can die tomorrow just as anyone else can, you bleed just like anyone else, you fuck up just like anyone else, it is time men realized this.
Don't give me this bullshit "she got what she had coming", because I'll tell you right now, if I hear that, I will make damn sure you get what you have coming for being so arrogant. Power does not lie in the fist, power comes from within it comes from three places, the heart, the mind and the soul. I love her, and I love her for who she is, and understand this, I will personally make sure no matter what happens she is treated right, her dreams will come true, and she will be happy. She knows I'm the real deal, and there is nothing you can do to ever change that about me. I am unbreakable in my love for her. I love her, and all she has to do is believe in my love and herself, and claim me. When I see or hear a man talk big about how who treats woman badly or make them respect him all I can do is laugh at how weak that man truly looks to me and this world, I pity there simple minds and fragile hearts, I pity the day when God truly opens their eyes, and when that day comes I want them to ask themselves was it worth it, was it worth your entire life.
Man up, take charge of your mistakes and make them right, don't take the easy way and shrug them off since they don't bother you, because what you fail to realize is it might not bother you but it does bother the one you hurt still. If you don't do what is right and make things right, karma has a way of forcing you to. Sure you can get what you want faster by running over people and crushing anyone in sight, but success by those methods only lead to painful short term results. Doing things the right way might not be popular and it might take a bit longer, but as a result you you success will last much longer and you will appreciate it much more.
I go out of my way to be the good person, I forgive all, and I confess I am not perfect. I make mistakes, I've made bad choices and hurt people at times, but I make that extra effort to make things right whether its asked for or not. When I doe and face God, I want to make sure I did everything in my power to atone for any mistakes I made, I want to make sure I treated people the right way, I want to make sure I loved the right way. While I may not be perfect, it doesn't stop me from trying to be the best I can be.
The phrase "it happens" or "it couldn't be helped" always bother me, because reality is everything happens because of the choices we make, therefore anything can be avoided ultimately, sometimes people don't want to admit they allowed things to happen. I love her, and this is why I am always open and honest with her, I she who she is and what she can become, she still has room to grow and while she hasn't reached full potential, I take notice that she is doing everything she can to get there. I personally realize there will be setbacks in life for myself and herself and really all of us. its real easy to tell someone you would do things different if you were them, but the truth is we don't know that because we haven't walked in their shoes.
I hate mean you treat women like property or that they should be dependent on them. Women are strong individuals, and they are equal to men in every way. Some men need to swallow their pride and realize you get what you give in love. If you want more, give more. A man should be just as thankful for the woman he loves as he expects her to be for him. I personally think a man who thinks he is better than a woman are less of a man, that that man is truly insecure. I for one am not afraid to show the world who I am, I am not afraid to open my heart and say who I love and why, I don't think being emotionless makes me stronger, in fact hiding my heart makes one weaker. Don't be ashamed of who you are or who you love. Fuck your image, what matters is reality and who you are and who you love. Get over yourself, we are all equal, you can die tomorrow just as anyone else can, you bleed just like anyone else, you fuck up just like anyone else, it is time men realized this.
Don't give me this bullshit "she got what she had coming", because I'll tell you right now, if I hear that, I will make damn sure you get what you have coming for being so arrogant. Power does not lie in the fist, power comes from within it comes from three places, the heart, the mind and the soul. I love her, and I love her for who she is, and understand this, I will personally make sure no matter what happens she is treated right, her dreams will come true, and she will be happy. She knows I'm the real deal, and there is nothing you can do to ever change that about me. I am unbreakable in my love for her. I love her, and all she has to do is believe in my love and herself, and claim me. When I see or hear a man talk big about how who treats woman badly or make them respect him all I can do is laugh at how weak that man truly looks to me and this world, I pity there simple minds and fragile hearts, I pity the day when God truly opens their eyes, and when that day comes I want them to ask themselves was it worth it, was it worth your entire life.
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