Never tell someone they have to accept your opinion, and I know sometimes it might be the truth, but let me tell you why you can't say or expect that. Your opinion is just that, it is your opinion, no matter how right or wrong you think you might be, the simple truth is it is your opinion. And what makes your opinion better than another person's opinion, why can't the roles be reversed and you just accept their opinion. Don't like that do you? Well, thats how the other person feels when you tell them to accept your opinion. In either case, it isn't right.
We all have understand that every being in this world is entitled to their own beliefs and opinions, and ultimately we must allow God, and God alone, to judge us for them, it isn't our place. The truth is, anything really is possible in life, you should never say never because you simply have no clue what life will bring, situations change, lives change, environments change, things change almost daily. Someone you once said never about, might become your one and only because things changed. How many things you do today or people you talk to today would you have said never about just ten years ago, things always change. People rise, people fall, its the only true constant in life other than God.
I love her, she knows this, and deep down she knows she loves me, but right things are what they are. I believe in space and freedom when you love someone, I have to step back and let her make mistakes, and figure some things out, let find her path, let her make right and wrong choices, but by loving I need to be willing to aid her when she needs it, to simply hold her up, keep her smiling, keep her laughing, keep her positive. Love isn't just physical, it isn't just about money or status, it isn't just about not being alone, love is loving someone so much you to build them up, you want them to be even greater than you, love humbles you, love will test you, love is good timesand love has bad times, but love, real love, always survives.
My love for her has survived so many things, and maybe that is what baffles her. She sees my love is real, and she knows I won't give up on her, and in a crazy way she loves that, its just now she needs to realize that is what real love is, and real love is right for her. My house is her house, my money is her money, my car is her car, my life is her life, whats mine is her's because I love her, and I put her before everything in life other than God Himself. That's love, and anyone who tells you otherwise doesn't understand love. How can you love someone and hurt them for personal gain, you can't, real love means sacrifice, but its giving something up for yourself knowing the love you gain is worth so much more.
I love her, everytime I see her I light up, even if it's just in passing. She doesn't get it, a simple hi makes me feel like the most important person alive. I would live to sit and talk, but until she makes the offer to meet up, we won't have the chance. Right now, I can't ask her to go out, I can't ask her to hang out, the way things right now I have to respect where she is at, and if we do spend time together she has to make it happen, and believe me I want that and will say yes. I refuse to support cheating of any kind, I won't date someone unless I know they aren't cheating, its a moral thing with me, plus if someone is cheating on someone to be with you, what would stop them from doing the same to you down the road, in many cases cheaters almost never truly change forever, they deserve a second chance, but understand 99% of the time it happens, I know I've seen it more often than not within my only family and friends.
That is why, she is my one and only love, that is why I am so loyal. When I say I love you, it means something, I don't tell just anyone I love them, truthfully how many times have you ever heard me say I love you to anyone verbally, it doesn't happen often, so when I say it, it definitely means something. I've been a little depressed lately, I'm missing my family's annual trip to Gatlinburg this weekend, and I really need time away from life in general, the last 4 or 5 vacations I've planned have been canceled for crazy reasons, but I trust God. The job search is up and down, I hoped to be working by now, but I know God will pull me through, but I know I need to stay positive, and I don't want other's to know I'm hurting, its my burden to bare, I'm strong enough, very few people ever know what I have on my shoulders, and God knows how strong I am. I have some of the strongest shoulders in the world, believe that. Hopefully I didn't skip too many words or make too many typos in this, I rarely proofread them.
We all have understand that every being in this world is entitled to their own beliefs and opinions, and ultimately we must allow God, and God alone, to judge us for them, it isn't our place. The truth is, anything really is possible in life, you should never say never because you simply have no clue what life will bring, situations change, lives change, environments change, things change almost daily. Someone you once said never about, might become your one and only because things changed. How many things you do today or people you talk to today would you have said never about just ten years ago, things always change. People rise, people fall, its the only true constant in life other than God.
I love her, she knows this, and deep down she knows she loves me, but right things are what they are. I believe in space and freedom when you love someone, I have to step back and let her make mistakes, and figure some things out, let find her path, let her make right and wrong choices, but by loving I need to be willing to aid her when she needs it, to simply hold her up, keep her smiling, keep her laughing, keep her positive. Love isn't just physical, it isn't just about money or status, it isn't just about not being alone, love is loving someone so much you to build them up, you want them to be even greater than you, love humbles you, love will test you, love is good timesand love has bad times, but love, real love, always survives.
My love for her has survived so many things, and maybe that is what baffles her. She sees my love is real, and she knows I won't give up on her, and in a crazy way she loves that, its just now she needs to realize that is what real love is, and real love is right for her. My house is her house, my money is her money, my car is her car, my life is her life, whats mine is her's because I love her, and I put her before everything in life other than God Himself. That's love, and anyone who tells you otherwise doesn't understand love. How can you love someone and hurt them for personal gain, you can't, real love means sacrifice, but its giving something up for yourself knowing the love you gain is worth so much more.
I love her, everytime I see her I light up, even if it's just in passing. She doesn't get it, a simple hi makes me feel like the most important person alive. I would live to sit and talk, but until she makes the offer to meet up, we won't have the chance. Right now, I can't ask her to go out, I can't ask her to hang out, the way things right now I have to respect where she is at, and if we do spend time together she has to make it happen, and believe me I want that and will say yes. I refuse to support cheating of any kind, I won't date someone unless I know they aren't cheating, its a moral thing with me, plus if someone is cheating on someone to be with you, what would stop them from doing the same to you down the road, in many cases cheaters almost never truly change forever, they deserve a second chance, but understand 99% of the time it happens, I know I've seen it more often than not within my only family and friends.
That is why, she is my one and only love, that is why I am so loyal. When I say I love you, it means something, I don't tell just anyone I love them, truthfully how many times have you ever heard me say I love you to anyone verbally, it doesn't happen often, so when I say it, it definitely means something. I've been a little depressed lately, I'm missing my family's annual trip to Gatlinburg this weekend, and I really need time away from life in general, the last 4 or 5 vacations I've planned have been canceled for crazy reasons, but I trust God. The job search is up and down, I hoped to be working by now, but I know God will pull me through, but I know I need to stay positive, and I don't want other's to know I'm hurting, its my burden to bare, I'm strong enough, very few people ever know what I have on my shoulders, and God knows how strong I am. I have some of the strongest shoulders in the world, believe that. Hopefully I didn't skip too many words or make too many typos in this, I rarely proofread them.
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