Sometimes people make mistakes, and people learn from mistakes, but the thing is if you love someone you can't hold that mistake against them for life. You have to give them a chance to show you they've learned and can fix things. Flip the script, would you want to one you love to hold your mistake against you for life, and if they did, just how would much do you think it would hurt you, it cuts deep.
People aren't perfect, and no matter how high or low your expectations are, it is inevitable people will make mistakes. You can't keep pushing people away because they made mistake, sometimes it really is innocent and unintentional. You can't expect perfection, you can't expect someone to get it all right the first try.
Love, when its real is stronger than any mistake, and if someone hurts you with a honest mistake and they love you, they will do whatever possible to fix things and try to not repeat that mistake, but if you love them you have to give them a chance to do better. Don't cast them aside as if their love means nothing and say they can figure it out somewhere else, that isn't love, that's simply saying you believe you're perfect and that the person who loves you is worthless, that is the message you send when you refuse to forgive, and I mean really forgive and give love a chance, not just say you forgive yet really hold it against them for life.
Sometimes people make mistakes, but they do so for good intended reasons. They may seek advice because you mean so much to them that they don't want to mess things up, is that such a bad thing that they love you that much. And maybe they didn't realize they were hurting you, did you ever tell them and give them a chance to listen and make things right, or did you mad and push them away.
I love you, mistakes were made no doubt, but you never allowed us a chance to work things out, you just walked out without trying. And the sad part is, it was a mistake that could have been easily fixed if given a chance. You keep focusing on the mistake, yet you always overlook the fact you never made an attempt to work through it, and deep down you know my love is real, and you know it is worth saving, and you know you gave up way to easily and quickly. I still love you, and you still can go back, but if you keep expecting perfection you'll never find it. Don't settle on love, when you know in your heart things can be fixed with someone who love's you for real. Listen to your heart, it knows the truth. Our love has stayed in tact for years and survived so much, deep down you know that means something truly deep.
It's not that some people never understand or learn, it's you never gave them a chance to practice what they learned. You yourself had to learn at one time.
People aren't perfect, and no matter how high or low your expectations are, it is inevitable people will make mistakes. You can't keep pushing people away because they made mistake, sometimes it really is innocent and unintentional. You can't expect perfection, you can't expect someone to get it all right the first try.
Love, when its real is stronger than any mistake, and if someone hurts you with a honest mistake and they love you, they will do whatever possible to fix things and try to not repeat that mistake, but if you love them you have to give them a chance to do better. Don't cast them aside as if their love means nothing and say they can figure it out somewhere else, that isn't love, that's simply saying you believe you're perfect and that the person who loves you is worthless, that is the message you send when you refuse to forgive, and I mean really forgive and give love a chance, not just say you forgive yet really hold it against them for life.
Sometimes people make mistakes, but they do so for good intended reasons. They may seek advice because you mean so much to them that they don't want to mess things up, is that such a bad thing that they love you that much. And maybe they didn't realize they were hurting you, did you ever tell them and give them a chance to listen and make things right, or did you mad and push them away.
I love you, mistakes were made no doubt, but you never allowed us a chance to work things out, you just walked out without trying. And the sad part is, it was a mistake that could have been easily fixed if given a chance. You keep focusing on the mistake, yet you always overlook the fact you never made an attempt to work through it, and deep down you know my love is real, and you know it is worth saving, and you know you gave up way to easily and quickly. I still love you, and you still can go back, but if you keep expecting perfection you'll never find it. Don't settle on love, when you know in your heart things can be fixed with someone who love's you for real. Listen to your heart, it knows the truth. Our love has stayed in tact for years and survived so much, deep down you know that means something truly deep.
It's not that some people never understand or learn, it's you never gave them a chance to practice what they learned. You yourself had to learn at one time.
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