Oh being a Virgo can be a struggle at times, as a Virgo we're very guarded until we trust you or love you, and we don't let many get truly close. However, when we do let you close, we have the nothing is off the table approach in conversation. It's not that we're nosey or rude, we just are willing to share our all if asked and we expect the same from those we care about. We really can be ignorant in crossing lines, we honestly don't realize we do many times. Maybe it's because we know our intentions are innocent even if they can be perceived otherwise.
Another struggle we endure is when we love someone we want to be in contact as much as possible, but Virgos aren't stupid, we know people need space, I mean Virgos need a lot of space themselves. So we struggle with our desire to contact someone daily and contacting someone to the point of being annoying. It's a fear of losing someone, but a fear of pushing someone away at the same time, and Virgos don't handle this well. We're afraid if we don't stay in contact daily we'll lose the one we love to someone else, yet we are also aware of go too far we're freak them out. Truthfully we mean well, we just sometimes scare ourselves because when we love you we don't want to mess things up, and unfortunately often times by trying not to mess things up we inevitably do.
A misconception about Virgo is they always want control or need to be in charge. That is actually not even close to being true, Virgo likes control, but we don't have to be the one in charge of that control. Virgo would prefer to be a follower, but we will only follow those we trust and truly believe in, if we don't believe in you, then we'll simply take charge ourselves. Nothing personally, but we know a good leader when we see one, and we don't tolerate bullshit or stupidity.
Virgos are straightforward, and we expect it back, we might be polite when we speak, but if needed we are masters a using words to make our point good or bad. Virgo will do anything necessary to make the one we love happy, even at the expense of ourselves. There is nothing in the world more important to us than the one we love. Mess with us Virgos all you want, but mess with the one we love and Virgo has no problem going to nay lengths necessary to make you pay properly.
Virgos believe one person can make a big difference in the world, we believe anyone can change anything good or bad with the right attitude and effort. Virgo is realistic, but we also realizes that almost anything is possible, just some things are harder than others. Virgo always does their best to keep their promises, and we take it personally when someone breaks their promise to us. We forgive, we don't forget, however we don't hold grudges, we simply try not to let mistakes repeat themselves.
We are hot and cold on the inside, but we try not to show that on the outside, we hold a lot in, and most Virgos are hurting more then we let on. We don't want to be the reason for anyone's sadness. We give because we love, and we don't expect anything in return, expect appreciation and love. We aren't emotional, but we are passionate, we love hard and true, and we aren't afraid to show it, and we are never ashamed of who we love.
The more time Virgo gives you, the more we love you. The more we critique you, good or bad, the more we love you. We always mean well, and we are often truly innocent when we hurt people, it is rare we do so intentionally. Many people think Virgos play innocent, but the fact is many times we really are unaware of what we did until it's shown to us, and even then we have to be convinced ourselves.
We are open minded, and always try to see every point of view of everything. We love to help, we love to love, and we are happiest when we spend time with who we love most. Even if it's just sitting by them, that to us is true happiness. A Virgo is amazing with money, we only spend on what we deem a good cause, and we don't spend without thinking first about bills.
We will tolerate almost anything from the one we love, and we can be stubborn as well. When we love you, we go all in, and don't look back. When we love you, it's about us as a couple, and not just us as a Virgo. We are selfless to a fault, but we're ok with that if we are loved in return. A very can be happy alone, but not really happy, we need the one we love to remind us life is great. A Virgo has a way of making things happen, we are resourceful beyond measure. We don't need money or power to make things happen, we tend to get creative.
Virgo are freaks in bed, yes, we'll experiment in ways that can blow your mind. And we always change things up on the fly. As control freaks we can be outside the bed, in the bed we preferred to be controlled. We are submissive to those we love, but we are non-submissive to anyone else. We strive for perfection, yet we know it's impossible, but it won't stop us from trying. We don't give up if we truly love something or someone, we'll keep fighting until it happens or we die. Yes we have flaws, but we are stronger than we show, and in Zodiac charts, Virgo is often times consider one the strongest overall signs for a reason.
We'll test your patience, and we might drive you bonkers, but in the end, you won't find a sign that loves more purely and true than a Virgo. We love for life, and never for the moment. We keep secrets better than people realize when we care. Believe me, I'm all Virgo to the core. Virgo desires someone different than themselves in love, we want someone who will challenge us, someone more risk taking than us, someone not afraid to stand up to us, but that person has to be kind and honest as well. We love families, and the thought of having one of our own is a dream come true. Now you know what a real Virgo can be.
So if I love you, you know I didn't come to that lightly, and you also know I'm in love with you for the long haul, good or bad.
Another struggle we endure is when we love someone we want to be in contact as much as possible, but Virgos aren't stupid, we know people need space, I mean Virgos need a lot of space themselves. So we struggle with our desire to contact someone daily and contacting someone to the point of being annoying. It's a fear of losing someone, but a fear of pushing someone away at the same time, and Virgos don't handle this well. We're afraid if we don't stay in contact daily we'll lose the one we love to someone else, yet we are also aware of go too far we're freak them out. Truthfully we mean well, we just sometimes scare ourselves because when we love you we don't want to mess things up, and unfortunately often times by trying not to mess things up we inevitably do.
A misconception about Virgo is they always want control or need to be in charge. That is actually not even close to being true, Virgo likes control, but we don't have to be the one in charge of that control. Virgo would prefer to be a follower, but we will only follow those we trust and truly believe in, if we don't believe in you, then we'll simply take charge ourselves. Nothing personally, but we know a good leader when we see one, and we don't tolerate bullshit or stupidity.
Virgos are straightforward, and we expect it back, we might be polite when we speak, but if needed we are masters a using words to make our point good or bad. Virgo will do anything necessary to make the one we love happy, even at the expense of ourselves. There is nothing in the world more important to us than the one we love. Mess with us Virgos all you want, but mess with the one we love and Virgo has no problem going to nay lengths necessary to make you pay properly.
Virgos believe one person can make a big difference in the world, we believe anyone can change anything good or bad with the right attitude and effort. Virgo is realistic, but we also realizes that almost anything is possible, just some things are harder than others. Virgo always does their best to keep their promises, and we take it personally when someone breaks their promise to us. We forgive, we don't forget, however we don't hold grudges, we simply try not to let mistakes repeat themselves.
We are hot and cold on the inside, but we try not to show that on the outside, we hold a lot in, and most Virgos are hurting more then we let on. We don't want to be the reason for anyone's sadness. We give because we love, and we don't expect anything in return, expect appreciation and love. We aren't emotional, but we are passionate, we love hard and true, and we aren't afraid to show it, and we are never ashamed of who we love.
The more time Virgo gives you, the more we love you. The more we critique you, good or bad, the more we love you. We always mean well, and we are often truly innocent when we hurt people, it is rare we do so intentionally. Many people think Virgos play innocent, but the fact is many times we really are unaware of what we did until it's shown to us, and even then we have to be convinced ourselves.
We are open minded, and always try to see every point of view of everything. We love to help, we love to love, and we are happiest when we spend time with who we love most. Even if it's just sitting by them, that to us is true happiness. A Virgo is amazing with money, we only spend on what we deem a good cause, and we don't spend without thinking first about bills.
We will tolerate almost anything from the one we love, and we can be stubborn as well. When we love you, we go all in, and don't look back. When we love you, it's about us as a couple, and not just us as a Virgo. We are selfless to a fault, but we're ok with that if we are loved in return. A very can be happy alone, but not really happy, we need the one we love to remind us life is great. A Virgo has a way of making things happen, we are resourceful beyond measure. We don't need money or power to make things happen, we tend to get creative.
Virgo are freaks in bed, yes, we'll experiment in ways that can blow your mind. And we always change things up on the fly. As control freaks we can be outside the bed, in the bed we preferred to be controlled. We are submissive to those we love, but we are non-submissive to anyone else. We strive for perfection, yet we know it's impossible, but it won't stop us from trying. We don't give up if we truly love something or someone, we'll keep fighting until it happens or we die. Yes we have flaws, but we are stronger than we show, and in Zodiac charts, Virgo is often times consider one the strongest overall signs for a reason.
We'll test your patience, and we might drive you bonkers, but in the end, you won't find a sign that loves more purely and true than a Virgo. We love for life, and never for the moment. We keep secrets better than people realize when we care. Believe me, I'm all Virgo to the core. Virgo desires someone different than themselves in love, we want someone who will challenge us, someone more risk taking than us, someone not afraid to stand up to us, but that person has to be kind and honest as well. We love families, and the thought of having one of our own is a dream come true. Now you know what a real Virgo can be.
So if I love you, you know I didn't come to that lightly, and you also know I'm in love with you for the long haul, good or bad.
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