I've always been very straight forward about myself on here, and tried to stay pretty consistent. I think I've managed to do that. There is a saying "Good guys finish last." Personally I find more and more that saying to be far from true, then again maybe there is some truth to it but not in the way people think. You see, bad guys might finish first, but often times when they finish it never lasts, they also wind up scampering and trying to find their next victim, and eventually their well runs dry. Good guys however are patient, they understand if your going to do something, then do it right the first time, and while they might finish last persay, when they finish it lasts a lifetime.
There are so many terms for the bad boy such as thug, hustler, player, and so on. And it is said that this is what women are drawn too and will often times instinctively chase after, even though deep they know it never lasts or ends well with them, they're drawn to the excitement and the idea they can tame them. But reality is, they know what they need is the good guy, the one who will put them first, the one who does things the right way, the one who has integrity and honor, the one who leads by example.
No matter what, no matter where I am in life, or whatever happens to me, I will never be the bad boy type. It isn't in me, and truthfully I don't believe it's the way God intended us to be. I will always be the good guy, and I don't mind the label of finishing last because I know God will make sure when I finish it will be lifelong. I'm not a normal guy, I don't chase the bad girls or easy girls or whatever, I am drawn to women who are strong, smart, chase their dreams, hardheaded, kind, God fearing, driven and more. I don't give myself to just anyone, I'm very guarded in that area. I would rather be alone, then be with a woman just for looks or sex, because to me meaningless love is a waste of time. I mean what you get night of happiness, and afterwards nothing. What is the point? You can keep your one night stands, I have no interest.
When I love, I love for the long haul. And truthfully, there is only one woman I love like that, and she knows who she is, and because of that I really have no interest elsewhere. My heart is her's, and I'm more than ok with that, because I see who she is, and believe me she is so much more than just a sexy woman, there is so much more to her. I see it in her eyes, in her smile, in her facial expressions, I hear it in her voice, I see the wheels turning, and it is a beautiful thing. Let the bad boys, or whatever they want to be called, have their fun and day, in the end I know as good guy I will stand tall, and I know God has a plan for me, I believe it, and nobody can take that from me unless God allows it. I love her, I believe in her, and I will never give up on her, that I can without a doubt guarantee on my life.
There are so many terms for the bad boy such as thug, hustler, player, and so on. And it is said that this is what women are drawn too and will often times instinctively chase after, even though deep they know it never lasts or ends well with them, they're drawn to the excitement and the idea they can tame them. But reality is, they know what they need is the good guy, the one who will put them first, the one who does things the right way, the one who has integrity and honor, the one who leads by example.
No matter what, no matter where I am in life, or whatever happens to me, I will never be the bad boy type. It isn't in me, and truthfully I don't believe it's the way God intended us to be. I will always be the good guy, and I don't mind the label of finishing last because I know God will make sure when I finish it will be lifelong. I'm not a normal guy, I don't chase the bad girls or easy girls or whatever, I am drawn to women who are strong, smart, chase their dreams, hardheaded, kind, God fearing, driven and more. I don't give myself to just anyone, I'm very guarded in that area. I would rather be alone, then be with a woman just for looks or sex, because to me meaningless love is a waste of time. I mean what you get night of happiness, and afterwards nothing. What is the point? You can keep your one night stands, I have no interest.
When I love, I love for the long haul. And truthfully, there is only one woman I love like that, and she knows who she is, and because of that I really have no interest elsewhere. My heart is her's, and I'm more than ok with that, because I see who she is, and believe me she is so much more than just a sexy woman, there is so much more to her. I see it in her eyes, in her smile, in her facial expressions, I hear it in her voice, I see the wheels turning, and it is a beautiful thing. Let the bad boys, or whatever they want to be called, have their fun and day, in the end I know as good guy I will stand tall, and I know God has a plan for me, I believe it, and nobody can take that from me unless God allows it. I love her, I believe in her, and I will never give up on her, that I can without a doubt guarantee on my life.
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