Saturday, February 20, 2016

One

Anyone who truly knows me knows that I am an extremely humble man, but at times I choose to speak up and this blog is going to come off that way to an extent I know, but I'm simply stating facts and being real for the purpose to make you think and see some things that might have been forgotten or overlooked.

I love on woman, and I don't want any other woman to be honest, and I will wait forever for her if need be, that's actually a strong Virgo trait ironically we know who we love and we won't give our hearts to anyone else because we value our heart and time.  So understand I am never going to stop loving her, I am never going to give up on her, I am never going to turn on her, and I will always stand with her and by her and defend her and provide for her.

She has this ideal mate in her head, certain qualities she feels they have to be, but I ask are these qualities personal preference or are they qualities that bring something positive and productive to your life.  Remember money, power, sex, looks, material things are all temporary and disappear in a blink of an eye.  Loyalty, forgiveness, honesty, humility, character, dependability, integrity and qualities like these last forever and are the real tools to happiness and success.

Think about it, she has been with several men in her lifetime that meet the qualities she feels are musts to her, and the end each one has ended the same, and while it is none of my business to know why, and I don't know why and don't need to know, they all ended the same.  Yet while all these men left her or relationships ultimately ended, I have stayed by her and continued to be there for her and love her no matter what the circumstances or where she is in life. I have been her constant, I have been the one man who has remained loyal to her and stood by my love for her.  Through her good times and even the bad times, I have remained the same to her with love and support.  Me, the man who doesn't meet these supposed qualities she feels are necessary, I have have been the one man who has truly loved her unconditionally through all things. I will always she the good in her.

I will never try to change her, but rather help her grow while remaining true to who she is.  I love her strengths, but I love her weaknesses too because they make her who she is and she won't allow them to defeat her.  In the past she has hurt me tremendously, but I still love her and I have always forgiven her, because while she has hurt me in the past she has brought me a million times more happiness in my life.  I will never judge her, but I choose to accept her for exactly who she is and always have.  Honestly I just want to be around her, cuddle on the couch and talk or watch a movie or something, the simple things really.  The only reason I push to go out and stuff is because I feel that's what she wants to do, but honestly I just want to be alone with her anywhere.

So does she keep chasing the qualities in guys that keep trying to control her and change her and ultimately leave her, does she keep running in circles with them.  Or is it time to trust that God put us in each other's life for a reason, because we aren't what each other were looking for, but we are exactly what each other needs in love.  Isn't it time you gave my love a chance, gave us a chance, I'm willing to risk it all on her, I completely love her and I'm not going anywhere.  The longer she runs from my love and our relationship, the more time in life we lose.  Life will never be perfect, there will be pitfalls and excuses always, but love, true love will always survive and be there, and I have true love for her always.  Let me love you, let me provide for you, let me believe in you, let me make you smile, let me protect you, let me be the one.  All these men run from you when you stand up for yourself, or they run when they can't break you, all these men ultimately have hurt you and let you down, but I am the one man that no matter what refuses to leave you or run from you, I refuse to give up on you, I refuse to leave you or hurt you, I am the one man who says he loves you and actually means it.  And you know it to be true.

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