Nobody has all the right answers in life or love, and if anyone says otherwise they're lying or playing you for a fool. All I can share is what I've learned through life experiences from eyes or those close to me. There a many things people think are needed to make love work, when in reality they aren't, in the end there is really one thing in love that makes love everlasting and real, and thats a person's heart.
Good sex life isn't love, reality is you can have sex with anyone good or bad, and thats just the truth of it. But good sex doesn't provide for you or keep your bills paid or keep a roof over your head. Money isn't love, while money pays the bills, it also makes the supposed love bought and in reality worthless, you can be poor and truly still be in love. Good looks doesn't equal love, once again can't pay bills on looks. Hustling or conning people isn't love, trust me anyone who takes this path God will make sure things catch up to you, might 20 years from now, but when it does heaven help you.
I'm not saying none of those above aren't nice, they just aren't real love. Many people have to find these things out the hard way, and its tough to watch someone you love slowly learn that lesson in life, but sometimes you just have to let things play out as God intends them too.
Real love is in a loving heart, a giving heart, a building heart, a forgiving heart, and providing heart. Its not only wanting to help someone, but help them help themselves to grow into greatness. Its being able to put your desires to the side, so you can build each other up and not just yourself. Its being able to put food on the table, roof over their heads, and not because you want sex in return, but because you actually love them enough that it simply matters the world to you. Love is being able to forgive someone who hurts you constantly because you love them and know they aren't perfect. And when I love, thats how I love. Love is loyal, love is kind, love is real, love is always trying to build you up.
I'm not muscle bound, I'm not rich, I'm not tall, I'm not a lot of things. But I am real, honest, loyal, kind, forgiving, successful. I'm extremely resourceful, I make the most out of what God blesses me with, and I try to make those around me better, not for my gain but for theirs. I never give up, God doesn't like quitters, and anything worth it is worth fighting for until it happens or I die trying, because if you give up than you never really wanted it. Thats how you tell when someone truly loves you, when you've given them every reasons to walk away, and yet they choose not too, instead they choose to help you and stand by you despite the pain, thats love. Society has lost sight of the values of real love, hence the increased divorces and shorter marriages, you shouldn't get married because of sex, or accidental baby, marriage is meant for love. Sometimes you have have to stop letting personal and physical desires get in the way of the love you know you truly need, its funny how once you do that how everything else will seem to work out.
Just wanted to share my thoughts on the subject is all. Sometimes all one can do and simply step back and let God play things out. And pray.
Good sex life isn't love, reality is you can have sex with anyone good or bad, and thats just the truth of it. But good sex doesn't provide for you or keep your bills paid or keep a roof over your head. Money isn't love, while money pays the bills, it also makes the supposed love bought and in reality worthless, you can be poor and truly still be in love. Good looks doesn't equal love, once again can't pay bills on looks. Hustling or conning people isn't love, trust me anyone who takes this path God will make sure things catch up to you, might 20 years from now, but when it does heaven help you.
I'm not saying none of those above aren't nice, they just aren't real love. Many people have to find these things out the hard way, and its tough to watch someone you love slowly learn that lesson in life, but sometimes you just have to let things play out as God intends them too.
Real love is in a loving heart, a giving heart, a building heart, a forgiving heart, and providing heart. Its not only wanting to help someone, but help them help themselves to grow into greatness. Its being able to put your desires to the side, so you can build each other up and not just yourself. Its being able to put food on the table, roof over their heads, and not because you want sex in return, but because you actually love them enough that it simply matters the world to you. Love is being able to forgive someone who hurts you constantly because you love them and know they aren't perfect. And when I love, thats how I love. Love is loyal, love is kind, love is real, love is always trying to build you up.
I'm not muscle bound, I'm not rich, I'm not tall, I'm not a lot of things. But I am real, honest, loyal, kind, forgiving, successful. I'm extremely resourceful, I make the most out of what God blesses me with, and I try to make those around me better, not for my gain but for theirs. I never give up, God doesn't like quitters, and anything worth it is worth fighting for until it happens or I die trying, because if you give up than you never really wanted it. Thats how you tell when someone truly loves you, when you've given them every reasons to walk away, and yet they choose not too, instead they choose to help you and stand by you despite the pain, thats love. Society has lost sight of the values of real love, hence the increased divorces and shorter marriages, you shouldn't get married because of sex, or accidental baby, marriage is meant for love. Sometimes you have have to stop letting personal and physical desires get in the way of the love you know you truly need, its funny how once you do that how everything else will seem to work out.
Just wanted to share my thoughts on the subject is all. Sometimes all one can do and simply step back and let God play things out. And pray.
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